Respecting Different Approaches to Caregiving is Important - AgingCare.com: Respecting Diverse Approaches to Caregiving is Important
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to caregiving.
Short of neglect or abuse of the care receiver, nearly every family caregiver must be free to make choices that work best for their unique situation. Even then, the available choices aren't always ideal.
You simply have to try and acknowledge what it really means to just do your best.